Friend, if you are reading this, my heart is with you.
The pain and shock you feel right now are indescribable. Your mind may be racing or completely blank, unsure of what to do when your dog dies or what to do when your cat dies.
It’s okay. Breathe.
I am here to offer a steady hand. This clear 24-hour checklist after pet death will guide you through the initial steps with dignity and love, helping you make the necessary arrangements for your beloved companion.
Let’s begin.
- Step 1: Confirm the Passing – The 3-Point Check
This is the first step toward finding calm. We need to peacefully confirm that your pet has passed away.
The Goal: To verify the absence of vital signs.
What to Do:
Check for Breathing: Hold a small feather or a thin piece of tissue in front of your pet’s nostrils. Watch for several minutes to see if it moves.
Check for a Heartbeat: Place your hand on the left side of your pet’s chest, just behind the front leg. Feel carefully for any movement or pulse.
Check the Pupils: Partially cover your phone’s flashlight to create a dim light. Shine it from the side of the eye onto the pupil. See if the pupil constricts in reaction to the light. Do not use the full, direct flash.
What It Means: If there is no response to all three checks, your pet has passed away peacefully. This confirmation allows us to proceed with the next steps.
Step 2: Gentle Aftercare – Cleaning and Preparing the Body
Before the body becomes stiff (usually within 3-4 hours after death), you can gently prepare your pet for a dignified farewell.
The Goal: To create a final, peaceful memory of your pet.
What to Do:
Wear gloves if you wish. Use a soft cloth dampened with warm water to gently wipe your pet’s face, body, and any soiled areas.
Use their favorite brush to gently groom their fur one last time.
Lovingly position your pet in a natural sleeping posture, perhaps one they often used.
What It Means: This act of love ensures the last image you have of your pet is one of peace and care, a memory that can bring comfort in the future.

Step 3: Essential Preservation – The Critical Cooling Step
This is the most crucial step in pet body care after death. It slows down natural processes, giving you time to make thoughtful arrangements.
The Goal: To temporarily preserve the body by cooling it.
What to Do:
Make Ice Packs: Quickly freeze several plastic bottles filled with water.
Position Correctly: In the coolest part of your home, lay down a plastic bag (for protection) covered with an old towel. Place your pet on the towel. Wrap the frozen bottles in towels and place them against your pet’s abdomen and back.
What It Means: Cooling provides a vital 24–48-hour window, allowing you to contact pet cremation services calmly, without having to rush.

Step 4: Create a Temporary Resting Place – A Final “Bed” of Love
Provide a dignified and loving temporary space for your pet.
The Goal: To create a respectful and comforting temporary resting place.
What to Do:
Find a sturdy cardboard box or use your pet’s own bed.
Line it with their favorite blanket or an old T-shirt that smells like you.
Place their most-loved toy beside them.
Cover them gently with a light, clean cloth or towel.
What It Means: This ritual transforms a difficult task into an act of devotion and guardianship.
Step 5: Practical Next Steps – Photos and Planning
When you feel a moment of calm, focus on two important tasks.
The Goal: To preserve a final memory and begin planning.
What to Do:
Take a Photo: If you feel able, take a picture of your pet looking peaceful. This photo may become a priceless keepsake.
Contact Services: Begin looking for reputable local pet funeral services or pet crematoriums. You can call to ask about their process and options.
What It Means: Taking these steps puts you in control, allowing you to make decisions without feeling rushed later.

Step 6: Informing the Family – A Circle of Support
Share the news in a way that brings your family together.
The Goal: To communicate with honesty and create a support system.
What to Do:
For Adults: Be direct and honest, and offer each other support.
For Children: Use simple, gentle, and honest language appropriate for their age.
For Other Pets: Allow your other pets to see and sniff the body. This can help them understand the loss and may prevent confusion or anxiety from “searching” for their friend.
What It Means: Open communication helps everyone grieve together and strengthens your family unit during this difficult time.

Step 7: Your Turn – Self-Care and Thinking of a Memorial
You have done incredibly well. Now, it is your turn to be cared for.
The Goal: To tend to your own needs and begin thinking about healing.
What to Do:
Drink some water. Try to eat a small snack. Allow yourself to rest and cry.
Sit quietly with your pet and remember the happy times you shared.
Gently consider what feels right for a memorial: a small gathering at home, or a piece of pet memorial jewelry to keep their memory close.
What It Means: This pause helps you transition from “crisis mode” to “healing mode.” Considering a memorial is the first step in honoring a love that continues.

You have navigated these first difficult hours with strength and love. When you are ready, consider a lasting way to honor this unconditional love. At LOVED ANEW, we help that love find a new, eternal form through custom ➡️pet memorial jewelry.


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